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Let each other know what you like

This is probably the biggest mistake couples make. They keep quiet during sex and hope that they are pleasuring their partner. They’re never quite sure if they are doing the right thing…..they just hope.

Instead a little communication goes a long way. Talking to your lover about things like what positions they prefer, what sexual techniques give them them most pleasure and what they can do to make it more enjoyable are the first steps to improving your lovemaking skills in the bedroom.

Dim Light

Something that took us quite a while to figure out was how much light we should have. First we thought that keeping the lights out and being in darkness was good. It’s only good at the start when one person is a little nervous. After that, it just ruins the atmosphere and feels weird/oddly cold.

The only thing worse than complete darkness is bright light….a big NO-NO. Hopefully this goes without saying!

Instead using a dim light or even putting a white/red sheet over a lamp is great for the mood. Even better though is using candles scattered through the room to provide flickering light for your lovemaking sessions.

Talk dirty

Some people go overboard with this love making tip. They make people feel horrible by talking dirty for far too long and are too graphic when doing it. Instead the best way to talk dirty is to allude to things that you may (or may not) do to your lover. Don’t be explicit.

Saying, “I want to stick my penis in you”, is bad

Saying, “If you’re lucky and play your cards right, I may just give you a little/big suprise” is good.

Both these lines mean the same thing but sound totally different.